Does A Flight Mean He Wants Sex?

Yes. Absolutely. Of course. Next question. Let me clear this up as quickly as possible. Men only invite women out of town (those whom we’ve only known for a relatively short period of time or are trying to get to know) with the predominant intention of having sex with them on the trip. It’s the God-honest truth and it’s nothing to get offended by. If a man thought enough of you to spring for airfare and offers to cover all of your travel related expenses for a weekend getaway, he does so in hopes of creating an environment where sex can “naturally” occur. This (understandably) baffles some women. Some take offense. It really isn’t all that complicated if you understand how we (men) operate.

When asked, I often provide ladies with a very simple rubric, which I share to illustrate how men think. Here it is—No heterosexual man in the history of humanity has ever noticed an attractive woman from afar and said to self, “Gee, she sure looks like she could be a good plutonic friend.” We’re sexually driven. End rubric. When we see a woman whom we find attractive, our first thoughts are often, well… sexual. It doesn’t mean we’ve reduced you to a sexual conquest, but the sexual attraction triggers intrigue and serves as our impetus to approach and subsequently court you. Right or wrong, both the desire and prospect of sex influences much of our decision-making when it comes to women. When a man invites a woman on a trip to Miami, Jamaica, or any other place which boasts serene beaches, pool side bars and requires a flight to get there, he wants sex. Doesn’t mean it’s his sole motivating factor, but he wants it. The worst thing you can do is accept an out of town offer from a man you’re not interested in. Of course, even if you did, it still wouldn’t obligate you to do anything you don’t want to. After all, it’s your body. However, why put yourself in the path of potential drama for the sake of a free trip? Also, in the event he asks you out of town and states, “No strings attached. I just want the pleasure of your company,” he’s still praying to the heavens that he’ll get the chance to see what you’re working with. This is why I say, if you’re not attracted to a potential suitor, haven’t known him long enough, or just don’t feel comfortable with the idea in general, I’d encourage you to communicate this honestly, respectfully and decline.

Nobody wants to turn down a free trip, especially when most of us are overdue for a vacation anyway. This is why you have to make sure you’re both on the same page in the event you’re thinking about going. Assert what you’re cool with and what you’re not UP FRONT. If he’s generally interested in getting to know you, he’ll still want you to come and will express so in a compelling manner. Obviously, if you’re cool with the possibility of getting down and dirty in paradise with your handsome new friend, then by all means get your sun block, designer shades, and sundresses packed and enjoy!

 Article submitted by Andre’ George, a Lifestyle Influencer and Writer with offices in Atlanta. Follow him on Twitter @TheAndreGeorge.

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